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MY NEW FOUND LESSONS FROM THE STORY OF RUTH

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  Before dropping my "church goer" status all in the name of being a Christian, whenever I heard the story of 'Ruth', there's only one thing that comes to my mind - "The woman who was willing to die with her husband's family". In my (Yoruba) tribe we call such person 'Abokoku'. Somehow, I didn't see anything worth studying or emulating about the life of Ruth - because it felt stupid for one to leave her entire family all in the name of commitment (Well, my subtle hatred for men was responsible for this thinking). Coming into Christ, I have not only seen the beauty in the life of Ruth but I have also learnt very important things that can be applied in our every day life. Ruth was a initially a widow who made a lifetime decision to forsake her people, country, gods etc. In my view, it takes someone to have tasted a better life for them to abandon his/her people, country etc. Ruth was a Moabite, these people committed several atrocities and ...

MARTHA'S DEMEANOR, MARY'S REVERENCE

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  There's something fascinating and intriguing about the story of Martha and Mary. One can identify their different personalities and as well learn from it and also their choices in life. One of the fascinating things includes the way Martha addressed Jesus. She basically took her anger and frustrations towards her sister out on Jesus. Reading that part, I sense a lot of frustration and irritation. Apparently Martha was tired of seeing Mary just sit with Jesus, while she was running around taking care of everyone. I bet she would love to sit down and listen to Jesus but is held back by the things she felt are needed to be in place. When you read this story, you can feel the tension between the two sisters.  Martha is frustrated and angry and apparently it sucks. She goes ahead to not directly talk to her sister but communicate her anger and frustration through Jesus hoping to hit and get her message across to Mary. By addressing Jesus, she hopes for recognition ...

ABBA FATHER!

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Amongst the many things that God is, he is also our Father! This is a statement of fact but a lot of people tend to realize this when their father dies or abandons them. They go "Oh! God is the father of the fatherless." Which of course is true but you don't have to wait for such thing to happen before you come into the realization of the fact that he is our Father. You can be in love with your earthly father, having a good relationship with him and still come into the realization that God is your father; in fact, a greater version of your earthly father. Jesus made mention of God as his father in the gospels several times. However, to the Jews, this was a new way of addressing God. And it was surprising to the Jewish leaders that a man could stand before them and claim that he was the Son of the Father; quite heretic to them. In the Old Testament, God is sometimes described using qualities of earthly fathers and mothers. Rather, Jesus referred to God using more informal,...

YOU HAVE A PURPOSE

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And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them. Romans 8:28 NLT Finding purpose is absolutely one out of the many things that gives the human race a great concern. "What is my purpose in life?" is a common question we ask ourselves. It can be very frustrating to see others do tangible things while you're there looking purposeless. A lot of people go about living their lives with the thought of "I have no purpose on this earth". But that's a big lie from the pit of hell. God didn't create anyone without a purpose. Did you think God's hands became so itchy that he decided and said "Oh, I'll just create this human to roam aimlessly on the earth?", Of course not. Knowing that you didn't put yourself on this earth with the assurance that there's definitely a superior force behind your existence should propel you to know why you were put on th...

DOES GOD HAVE A SENSE OF HUMOUR?

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The justification of some Christians that God doesn't have a sense of humour strikes me like a thunder. How do you say a God who created man in his image according to his likeness has no humour? If man does have a sense of humour, so does God. Man's sense of humour may have been somewhat corrupted/perverted due to sin but it doesn't change the fact of the discussion matter. For example, God has intellect just like we do, he is creative just like we are, he feels sad just like we do etc but the sinful nature can make us misrepresent the true nature of God. If God has no sense of humour, I think we should question where man got his. Our sense of humour may not exactly be the same because there are some despicable things human find funny that God will not find funny. A joyful, cheerful heart brings healing to both body and soul. But the one whose heart is crushed struggles with sickness and depression. Proverbs 17:22 TPT The latter part explains what happens when your heart ...

THE CHRISTIAN LIFESTYLE

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Christianity being perceived as boring is one of the things that makes me cringe. I used the word "perceive" because in it's true sense, it isn't; just that many people have portrayed it go be "boring". Quite a number of people believe that Christianity, being cranky and condescending go hand in hand. We haven't portrayed the Father the way we should which is quite disheartening. Anyone can be boring but does being a Christian mean you have to be boring? No! In this current world, we feel the only way to have fun means doing the worldly things (pre-marital sex, binge drinking, etc). Of course, as a Christian, you know what the scriptures says about the things I previously mentioned. But are those the only way to have fun? Of course not. I think I'll one day write on the several ways Christians can have fun. Christianity is many things but not boring! The Christian life is exciting because of what God does through anyone who surrenders to him. I'm...

CONSISTENCY AND COMMITMENT WITH SEUNFUNMI OKUNTOLA

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A lot of times, a hard task may look like a challenge from a far. The closer you get, the more you realize it is probably not worth your time and effort but the fact is this; "Its all about perspective". It all lies in what you choose to view as a challenge and what you understand to be impossible. Many of us have fallen into the procrastination trap too many times when it comes to doing the more challenging things every day. Its time to level up our game and commit to our goals every single day. Here is Seunfunmi Okuntola, she will be sharing her story on consistency and commitment. Oluwaseunfunmi Okuntola. Hi there! My name is Oluwaseunfunmi, Over the past year, I would say that this has been the toughest year for me, not 2020 particularly but from last year. The past one year and a couple of months has been crazy; I had so many things happening and I know that for a very long period, I wasn't in the right mental, emotional and physical space because I have been in and ...